Self confidence is strictly
belief in our abilities to achieve to our own satisfaction.
Self confidence is an
inherent
quality of our character: as babies we yelled to get
attention,
we expected to get attention and we got it!
It may not have
been
quite up to our expectations,
but our yelling got results.
We had
the self confidence That we would achieve our
aim
and we did achieve our aim
and got attention for our effort,.
As we grew up, we
continually displayed
self confidence.
We exhibited self confidence to
walk, showed self
confidence to run, showed more self confidence to
talk, demonstrated self
confidence to catch a ball, flaunted self confidence to
sing, had more self
confidence to dance and we had ample self confidence to
meet new people and play with them.
"With all these displays of self confidence,
we received
appreciation from others."
Need I
continue? O.K.
WE
HAD SELF CONFIDENCE ALL THE WAY THROUGH OUR MATURING YEARS,
THIS
BEING SELF CONFIDENCE TO SUCCEED IN ALL OF OUR ENDEAVOURS. "SELF
CONFIDENCE TO SUCCEED TO OUR OWN SATISFACTION!!!"
Self
confidence is part of us: we cannot possibly
lose self
confidence!!! As
we can't lose self confidence, what have we lost?We
have obviously got self confidence confused with something else.
Self confidence is
confidence
in ourselves!
Let me repeat a quotation from
above, giving a different interpretation:
"SELF CONFIDENCE
TO SUCCEED TO OUROWN SATISFACTION?"Did you notice the question mark?
Now
let me also repeat another quotation to emphasize my point:
"With all these displays of
self confidence, we received appreciation from
others".WHAT
DOES THAT TELL US?
IT TELLS US THAT WE HAVE
BEEN SEEKING APPROVAL FROM OTHERS
AND THAT WE ARE CONFUSING
THEIR SATISFACTION WITH OUR OWN SATISFACTION.
We
cannot satisfy others, only they can be satisfied themselves, even if
that is satisfaction which results from someone else's efforts.
So,
we are confusing their
satisfaction with our own satisfaction,
thus creating
SELF DOUBT.
AS A RESULT WE DOUBT
OUR OWN
CONFIDENCE.
This is an unhealthy
situation as now we are doubting ourselves, making us unhappy
and making us believe that we can't succeed!
Which
is nonsense!
GOAL SEEKING
IS
SYNONYMOUS
WITH LIFE.
We
set a goal which we strive to attain. When we achieve that
goal
to our satisfaction, we have success and we stop striving,
enjoy it,
then set another goal.
iF
WE WISH TO CLIMB A MOUNTAIN WE SEE THE SUMMIT IN OUR MIND'S EYE, (THAT
IS OUR GOAL) WE TAKE A STEP TOWARDS IT AND WE ARE ON OUR WAY!
WHEN WE REACH THE TOP WE ENJOY THE VIEW COME DOWN AND MAY LOOK FOR ANOTHER.
WITHOUT THAT FIRST STEP INTO THE UNKNOWN WE COULD NOT REACH THE TOP!
If
we have no self confidence, there is no point in
setting goals.
NO GOAL?
Without
a goal
we are aimless and handicapped.
This is also a sad state of affairs, as with no goal we are
going
nowhere; we are like a fish without a tail, swimming around
aimlessly and vulnerable to attack, ending up as a meal for other
fishes.
Achieving is an inherent desire;
and satisfying our desire, "self satisfaction",
is our reason for living.
Self satisfaction is purpose of
life.
There
can be no self satisfaction without goal setting,
and there can be no
goal setting without self confidence, as
without self confidence we
could not expect to achieve our aim.
Goal setting and
therefore meaningful experience
can only be successful if we have self confidence.
Self
confidence in its simplest terms
is belief in ourself.
You lost your self confidence
somewhere along the line.
The question is how are you going
to regain this lost self confidence?
LACK OF SELF CONFIDENCE ISNEGATIVE BELIEF.Get
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you guessed it!
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